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Montana Parenting Plans And Co Parenting Agreements
A Blueprint For Co Parenting
A clear parenting plan is the roadmap for life after separation or divorce. Our Missoula attorneys help parents create written agreements that spell out time, responsibilities, and communication so everyone knows what to expect. At Bulman, Jones & Cook, we aim to lower conflict by designing plans that fit your child's routine from Missoula schools to visits with extended family across Western Montana.
What A Montana Parenting Plan Should Include
A strong parenting plan addresses day to day schedules, holiday and vacation time, pick up and drop off details, and how major decisions will be made. It can also cover how parents will communicate, what happens if one parent is running late, and how to handle changes in activities or travel. We help you think through these details now so small questions do not turn into big arguments later.
Creating A New Parenting Plan
If you are separating, divorcing, or formalizing an informal arrangement, we guide you through the process of
drafting a new parenting plan. Some parents work out terms together and ask us to put them into legal form, while others need help bridging bigger differences. Bulman, Jones & Cook listens to your goals and crafts proposals that balance parental involvement with your child's need for stability.
Modifying An Existing Plan
As children grow and parents' jobs or living situations change, an old parenting plan may no longer fit. Montana law allows modifications when there is a
substantial change in circumstances and the change is in the child's best interests. Our firm prepares modification requests, negotiates adjustments, and represents you in court if agreement is not possible.
Using Mediation To Shape Parenting Plans
Mediation can be an effective way to work through differences and finalize a parenting plan. A neutral mediator helps parents focus on their child's needs and explore creative schedules instead of arguing about the past. We can represent you during mediation or refer both parents to our separate Mediation Services team if you want a neutral facilitator.
Parenting Plan FAQs
Do we really need a written parenting plan if we get along?
Even friendly co parents benefit from a written, court approved plan. It provides structure and a backup if disagreements arise in the future. Clear expectations can actually preserve good relationships by reducing confusion.
Can we customize Montana's standard parenting plan form?
Yes, the standard form is a starting point, not a one size fits all solution. We tailor the plan to your family's schedule, including work shifts, school calendars, and travel. Judges generally approve customized plans that are clear and in the child's best interests.
What happens if we agree to changes but never update the court order?
Informal changes may work for a time, but they are not legally enforceable. If conflict arises, the court will look to the last signed order, not side agreements. It is safer to file a stipulation and updated plan so the order matches what you are actually doing.
How do parenting plans handle holidays and summer?
Many plans alternate major holidays, split winter break, and set longer summer blocks for extended time with each parent. We can follow common patterns or design a schedule that reflects your family's traditions. Writing it out in advance helps avoid last minute holiday disputes.
What if one parent keeps ignoring the parenting plan?
Repeated violations can be addressed through enforcement or contempt motions. The court can order make up time, require compliance, and in serious cases consider changing parts of the plan. Keeping detailed records of missed exchanges or last minute cancellations strengthens your position.
Build A Solid Parenting Framework
A thoughtful parenting plan gives your child predictability during a time of change. Bulman, Jones & Cook works with parents in Missoula, Hamilton, Polson, and other Western Montana communities to build plans that last. Call 406 721 7744 or send a message to talk with a Montana parenting plan lawyer about your next step.